You have to be okay on your own. You should not need to seek
emotional high from anyone, oftentimes mistaking it as love.
If they reach out to you, good. It's their job in the first
place. It's just unfortunate that you fell for the wrong
person. But of course, considering your age, it is just as
natural and not as uncommon as you think it is. You have to
understand, value, and appreciate yourself on your own light
so that when they do not do so, you are firmly grounded on
the foundation of who you are as a singular person, and not
in the identity that they give to you.
Also, be careful of what you read and see, because if it is
from the world then there's a big chance it will not be as
reliable. Be careful on who you let to influence you. God
said in Romans 12:2, "Do not conform yourself to the pattern
of this world but be transformed inwardly by the renewing
your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of your
Father in heaven."
But of course that does not disregard the advices that you
deem right and sound. Just like what Su gave you. It's a
blessing from God to have such kind of people in your life.
God really is amazing in his creation that he created us
uniquely different from each other, so that when opinions are
needed, it's always nice to hear from a different point of
view.
What she said to me really left a mark in my mind. I know my
place. I know who I am. And I do not need anyone's attention
to feel beautiful, accepted, and more importantly, loved. I
love myself the way I am, my family loves me, my friends love
me, and most especially, if that list all crumbles down, I
have my Jesus who already loves me even before I knew what
love is. I do not need any guy to feed me up and then tear me
down just because he is yet unstable in his ways too.
I believe that when I talk about love, GB still exists, and
God is still molding us for each other. The fact that we
aren't still together now is a clear sign that we are not yet
ready. My hope is in the Lord, and he will not disappoint :)
-Psalm 9:10
My identity is secured in Christ. I am his daughter, loved
and treasured by my Father, the King of the heavens.
Naturally speaking, I should be pursued. And pursued I should
be. Just as any princess is to a King.
My happiness is nothing compared to the surpassing worth of
knowing Christ Jesus who is the source of my joy. Life is
more than finding true love and GBs. It is be holding the
fact that Jesus loves me, He died for me to have a
relationship with Him, the kind of relationship that brings
security, fullness in identity, and hope. Hope in what's to
come. Hope found in eternal life with the Father. There's
gotta be a reason why I am called The Bride. Because Jesus?
He is my Bridegroom. He is the real GB. ❤ what amazing the
Fathers love for us. That he would send his only son to
rescue us. He has saved us, called us blameless, guides us
now, and will sustain us. Oh how wonderful the Father's love!
